Domestic Violence Awareness Month

As we continue our discussion of intimate partner violence we focus our attention on “power” and how this power struggle between partners can become more complicated with HIV status. Domestic violence and abuse often times exploit this power and use factors such as money, status, health, and sometimes even children to make HIV positive women feel vulnerable and helpless.

The LTAI women share some words of encouragement to anyone who might be in this situation:

You are not alone. We are all broken in some way, let’s be broken together. Maybe we were never meant to be complete. We stand stronger together.”

“You are not alone. There is always help out there for you. You are stronger than this and you will overcome this. Everybody in life has challenges and they should not define you.”

There is so much we can do to support and advocate for HIV positive women and to end these power imbalances. We can encourage senators and representatives to support legislation like HR. 1843; S. 1790: The REPEAL (Repeal Existing Policies that Encourage and Allow Legal) HIV Discrimination Act of 2013. We can also support programs like “Common Threads” that promote economic justice and healing for women with HIV. To learn more about advocacy and support visit this link:

Can you think of any other ways to continue fighting violence and abuse against HIV positive women? Share your thoughts with us in a comment below!


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  1. Do Not feel ashamed if you are being abused. YOU Are Not to blame! Violence strikes the weak and helpless among us. Abusers don’t need a reason they only need a punching bag. Don’t accept the abuse silently any longer. Don’t try to fight back alone. There is strength in numbers and our group is behind any and all victims of any sort of abuse. Abuse can be more than a slap or kick. Abuse can be mean or unkind words. Abuse can be name calling or denying of food, water, or shelter. Don’t allow them to be secretive in their abuse any longer. Speak out loudly. Tell your family, tell your friends, your neighbors, your doctor, your teacher, the police, and this support group. We pledge or promise to be with you in good times and bad. Don’t let them keep you a silent victim another day.

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